There are many books that are about the evils of polygyny. Why should a man have more than one wife? Isn’t it an oppression against women? The arguments against polygyny have been all but exhausted. There are also many pro-polygyny books that sets out to detail the many benefits of polygyny or that polygyny is in fact the natural mating system for human beings. Very little is written on the practical implications, applications and perils around polygyny. Having lived in polygyny for over seven years, I will try to accurately depict, not only my experience in polygyny but also the difficulties one can anticipate along with precautions one should take. If you are a woman or man considering embarking on polygyny then this book is must read for you. It is a hands on practical guide to the challenges, solutions and considerations that you must be cognisant of, before you embark on the wonderful and perilous journey that is polygyny.
“Very few people give constructive information about having sex. Most resources focus on how to pleasure the other person. That is entirely the wrong approach to sex. Your job during sex is pleasuring yourself. Both male and female should focus on how best to pleasure themselves with their partners and not on how best to pleasure their partners. When it comes to sex and pleasure it is still important to follow some basic etiquettes for good health and longevity.”
“Often, when men embark on polygyny they make the mistake of thinking that all women are sexually the same. Each woman is different and having sex with each woman is different. Every woman has her own tempo, style and abilities. Some women come five times while having sex. Other women rarely come. How often you can make your women come isn’t a reflection of your performance. It is a reflection of her biology, her fat cells, and her own sexuality in relation to you. Sometimes a wife of yours might not actually find you to be that attractive and might not really be enjoying sex that much. Nevertheless, each person is responsible for their own level of enjoyment.”
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